5 of the 6 we have lived together. Thank you for saying that, it means so much to me. He has many personal issues in his life and is bi-polar on top of it. I enjoyed this but since my wounds are fresh I am having trouble processing it’s logic. Abruptly things ended.

He was so clever. When I’m unsure whether to stay in a relationship or walk away, I ask myself these two questions: “Do I like who I am when I’m with him? So glad this could article could help you move on. I asked him why commit to having a family but not to marriage.

Hi, I took everything way too personally and put way too much blame on myself.

So I cracked and started to contact her, and one day I finally went to her house where I cried for hours, and out of compassion she probably thought its ok to see each other again. I kept thinking about the mistakes I had made in the relationship. So this made me pull back and need space. After about 2 months passed from the day I asked for space, she told me she was dating someone else but she doesn’t see a future in it.

I know there’s no going back. He My ex is a lot younger than me and at 55 I feel I will be own my own forever. window.mc4wp.listeners.push( You may come to a point in your life where you have to let go of an addict you love. Hi Ramon, it sounds like you know what to do and what’s best for you. And the “you have always given me so much more than I have ever given you and I have a lot to learn about relationships” and “you are beautiful, smart, independent, strong and funny and you comfort me and have always been there for me, and I will call you in a few days…” And the calls never happened after continuous calls and texts.

You have to try and work on letting go of those feelings and taking care of yourself while moving forward. And that didn’t happen overnight. Because it doesn’t matter how many times your friends and family say he wasn’t right for you; ultimately, *you* have to recognize that.

I appreciate them so much. (C) 2013 – present, Sixty and Me. When you set those aside, you begin to understand love. Once you’ve identified how you are enabling the addict, you can start setting boundaries and outline consequences. Indeed it is helpful being able to share your pain with people that had to overcome the same grief…. Cathy, please don’t feel that way. Until recently, she started avoiding me. Ever heard of the expression “when one door closes, another one opens”? Thank you so much for this article. It’s really true.

Oh yes, getting over a relationship seems like it takes forever!! But it has been almost impossible to let go and to cut the ties.

I found out on my first day of a international trip and it was so difficult being away from home. We didn’t fight and we weren’t dealing with anything crazy or serious to have warranted a breakup. You will get there, just don’t be so hard on yourself and believe you will find someone who makes you happy.

Best of luck!

I have recently left my husband whom I have loved immensely for 14 years. But i know deep down inside that she in not the one for me. Now you just have to stay strong and stick to it. I realize she’s moved on and it’s over. To elaborate on your point though, you communicated your standards and he didn’t respect them.

I feel like I’m going crazy. Prepare yourself by staying positive and focusing on what you really want, and you will ultimately find a healthier, deeper love. It’s a real personal touch.

However, whenever I even think of being with someone else, I feel like I’m betraying him and our love.

Thanks everyone. He told me he’s not ready yet.

But despite all that, I still loved him, and still do. There’s very little you can do, and you certainly can’t fix the person. You always have hope.

Here’s to a brighter tomorrow! Why beat yourself up. Almost everyone I know is married and/or has kids. 3. I sent him a final email expressing my love, heartache and confusion and that I wish he would have spoken to me and that I loved him. Believe you will get there . In terms of how upset you’re feeling now, be patient with yourself.

I can’t force him to not shut me out and maybe I love him so much, too much, that I don’t see that it may be smothering him. That’s something you and him need to decide. Why didn’t I do this?

I hated who I became. He still owes me money but trying to get it off him is a nightmare.

It was like breaking up with me all over again. I am trying my very best to let go, I have given her so many chances and i have given all the love that i know how I just cry and cry – trying to understand, praying for peace and resolution. We know the struggle, which is why we're uniquely qualified to help. In cases where the breakup ended badly (i.e. I haven’t been able to get peace and move on. (function() {

Still nothing. Thanks for this article. You have successfully subscribed to our mail list. Hes nasty on the phone to me as I keep messaging him and phoning him even on a night out I was sending him pictures of me having fun and now I have pushed him too far and now he wants nothing to do with me. I was married for 16 years & divorced after I discovered he had a second life going on.

We agreed to ended things nicely. He paid for us to take a vacation in a few weeks. Saying goodbye to someone who has been such a major part of your life is scary, and even when you know it’s the right decision, it’s still hard. What is making it extremely difficult is that we work together. Hi Amanda, Thanks for the kind words, that really means a lot. Your ex is a total dump for putting you through all this pain…please change the way you start your day…every morning wake up stretch give thanks and make the decision to be present in the moment and happy. I also try to stay social and surround myself with friends and family so I’m distracted and busy. Now, in your case, the other issue here is marriage. I’m so sorry that you’re hurting. Hope that helps! She has asked me to let go and at times I feel lonely and reminisce about the good time she and I had. I feel for you, the hurt that you are going through is just awful. What hurts so bad is that she could move on so easy and I’m feeling like I’ve lost everything. We are only humans and we feel hurt but it’s time to make changes in your attitude and live for you for your happiness. I am 43 on Saturday we have been split up now for 5 months we got back together for a few weeks but he kept saying he wanted space and wanted me to leave him alone for a couple of weeks for him to miss me. This will not be an easy thing for me. Even if you are meant to reconnect down the line, the space apart often helps to clarify things and let you know the right decision to make. I have a wonderful life of family and friends, but this companionship gave me joy I cannot possibly experience in the same way outside of a loving committed relationship (and I am a pretty joyful person!). I want to be able to walk past him without thinking about his arms around me, or giving each other the sweet smiles we used to.

How am I going to live without loving you?

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